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How to Get Your Ex Back? A Simple 6 Point Plan for Success

How to Get Your Ex Back? A Simple 6 Point Plan for Success

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I’m sure you’d like to get your ex back. But you’re also considering moving on. Even though you know that person has flaws, your heart still encourages you to return, thinking about how amazing they are on occasion. For better or worse, you just want to get your ex back. What’s more, guess what? When we split up, more than 80% of us think of it in a similar way.

This post is for everyone who wants to get back their ex. It could be an ex-girlfriend, ex-boyfriend, ex-wife, ex-husband, or ex-fiancé. It doesn’t matter if it’s a straight or gay relationship. This post will be beneficial and educational if you have recently broken up with your ex and are considering getting your ex back.

Because you are heartbroken, emotionally fatigued, and most importantly, bewildered after a breakup, it is critical to have a plan to follow. And you’re going to make a lot of mistakes in this state of bewilderment, which will hinder your chances of getting back together and make you unhappy. A plan provides you with a sense of direction and clears out any ambiguity. When you’re feeling down and out about yourself, a plan will offer you something to look forward to.

So, here is the 6-step strategy on how to get your ex back? While following this plan does not guarantee that your ex will return to you, it will significantly boost your chances of doing so.

Do not communicate with your ex.

Your ex-partner believes he or she is the finest person for you. This gesture simply reinforces to your ex that you aren’t that great, that no one else wants you, and that he or she was correct in leaving you.

Don’t use social media to spread negativity.

Your friends will first unfollow you, and seeing your negativity, they will be hesitant to approach you or introduce you to new individuals. Second, your new friends will all be aware that you are depressed and will not want to learn more about you for fear of becoming infected with your unhappiness. Third, for those close friends who truly care about you, you can simply meet up with them and cry your eyes out. It’s a complete waste of time to try to gain more attention by being negative. No one enjoys being the centre of attention.

Don’t get into relationships lightly.

We understand how devastated you are, and how you may feel useless right now since you believe your ex doesn’t want you. You want to be loved, and you’re hoping that if your ex finds out you’re dating someone else, he’ll be envious and ask you to come back. STOP. That isn’t a form of self-love. My ex-is-still-the-center-of-my-world is a phrase that means “my ex is still the centre of my universe.” Everything you do is motivated by a desire to reclaim your ex. However, everything you do from now on should be centred on you. To get your ex back by not trying to win him/her back may appear to be paradoxical. That is what distinguishes us as human beings. What you don’t get is always what you want.

And you always desire what you believe is in your best interests. So, what can you do to improve yourself? You can begin by improving your look (new haircut, new clothes, building muscle, eating healthier, etc.) and having a positive attitude/being open-minded. Join a meditation or yoga class, or learn something new. Improve your exterior appearance as well as your inside mindset. Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

Meet new people by going out with friends.

So now that you’ve reached Version 2.0, you need to show it off to the rest of the world. Get out more often!

Get started on something you’ve been putting off.

To do what you love, you must have bravery. That is the most crucial aspect of loving yourself. Start learning to ride a horse, for example, if you’ve always wanted to do it. Enroll in a class. If you want to establish a business, now is the time to learn how to do so and surround yourself with like-minded others. It’s time to visit your high school and see your favourite instructor if you’ve always wanted to. Go ahead and get a pedicure if you want to try that new eatery. This is the period when all you need to think about is yourself.

Take photographs

Take images of your fresh and improved appearance when you go out or have new adventures. Take pictures of yourself doing your favourite things. You can shoot photos with your buddies as well. Then share it on social media platforms such as Instagram or Facebook. This will also assist you in making new friends. These photos may or may not be seen by your ex. What does it matter? You’re having fun, and you’ll attract more folks who share your interests. But don’t go overboard with your posting. Once every two days is a good amount of posting to avoid annoyance while yet showing off your fantastic life.

Don’t even think about your ex or what he or she could want while you’re doing all of this. Do whatever you want. Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

We wouldn’t be shocked if your ex contacts you in some way again. The majority of them do.

And if he or she reaches you again, be courteous. If they beg to meet, take your time, while you appear to be healed, I’m sure it will still hurt when you meet again. Don’t jump back into the relationship after only a few phone calls or emails. After all, your worth has risen dramatically. Allow them to wait and take as much time as you need to re-evaluate the person before returning.