Things I Wish I Should Have Known Before Committing to a Relationship
There are many things we wish we had known before doing anything in life, but the truth is that our experiences are what make us grow as people.
For all those girls, here is a quick list of 4 things you must check in your partner, before taking the final plunge into a relationship:-
He Must Be Practical
Yes, love causes you to lose all sense, but it is also critical to consider other factors. How self-sufficient is he? Is he aware of the concept of space? Is he able to function without you? Can he manage the house in your absence? All of these traits are important, and you will be sorry if you don’t see them in the man you love.
He is not after your Money
There are numerous cases, where the guy is just after your money. Don’t fall trap with these kinds of jerks, who are masquerading as true lovers but in reality, are just after your money.
He should be Mature
Dear ladies, having a man-child as a life partner is the equivalent of a diabetic drinking sugar! The poison that works slowly! If he behaves cute all the time and you don’t see any signs of maturity, don’t fall for him any further since he won’t change. You are about to inflict damage on yourself.
He should have Some Serious Goals
A man can love you, but he cannot run your life. There’s more to life than “sachcha pyaar.” When you reach the age of 30, you realise how many ridiculous things you have put up with and broken your heart over in your partner, to the point of embarrassing yourself. If he kept claiming that my life’s ambition is to “keep you happy” and “die in your arms,” but there was no specific dialogue about practical ambitions, you know what you’ve done. In life when he has some aims and desires, he must have a practical approach. Yes, they change as we mature and experience more of life, but there should be something. It is critical to have some sense of what you want out of life! The man I was in love with did not, so I assumed it would come with time…
